Showing posts with label Matthew Updates. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Matthew Updates. Show all posts

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Jazz at Jesse - Father's Day with Matt

Jesse Hunt Nursing Home at Narrabri
had their 30 Years Celebrations today..
So seeing as its Fathers Day
and Matt's Kids were too far away to visit
Mum & I headed over to join in the festivities with Matt....

Mum also had a specail Fathers Day present for Matt.
Mum sent a letter to South Sydney Football Club a while ago
just care off the oval mind you!!!
About Matthew's situation.
And the history Matthew has with the club itself.
He was identified by the club at 8 years old as being a kid to watch.
He participated in exchange programs with the club to train these kids in the City
with the view of playing in the Sydney Comp.
As well as that, my Cousin married a Rabittohs Player a few years back
and Matthew met the players at their wedding.
Of course being the character Matt is,
he entertained the boys all night with his hero worship!!
He got them all the sign his hat
and then sometime latter, they also sent him a signed Jersey.
To the "Happiest Drunk" we've ever met!!
Anyway, after this incident with Matt, 
his belongings had gone missing and he was pining away for his Jersey!!
It was something he treasured and it came from very fond memories
from a night on the grog with these footy players!
All this was in the letter Mum wrote and sent to the Oval!!!

Through the week Mum got a parcel....
Which was given to Matthew today


It was a signed Jersey...

The letter read:
Dear Margaret,
In regard to the letter you wrote concerning the unfortunate circumstances involving your son Matthew Heagney, please accept the South Sydney Rabbitohs 2011 jersey signed by the current roster of players.
Souths Cares are allocated a number of signed jerseys by the South Sydney Rabbitohs to donate to charitable organization of fundraising purposes - each jersey is registered by the club as proof of authenticity.
On reading your letter we thought it would be appropriate to send you one of our registers jerseys numbered 123.
If there is anything else we can assist with in the future please don't hesitate contacting the South Sydney Rabbitohs Club.
Yours sincerely
South Cares.



Needless to say, when Mum read Matthew the letter, the tears flowed.
He recalled how they said he was the Happiest Drunk
and was so touched that they would do this for him!
Of course, it had to go on..


So he was in fine form for a very social day of celebration
All dressed up in his new jersey
we headed into the gardens for some Jazz...


It was such a pleasant setting
with a Jazz Band playing lovely easy listening music
there was a coffee man set up,
there were devonshire teas and beautiful fresh scones
and the Mens Shed was on the BBQ.


So we spent the majority of the day listening to the music
before Matt started to get too tired and we headed in.


It was a lovely fathers day with Matthew..
and although i do feel a little guilty i didn't spend it at home with my hubby
Poor Matthew doesn't have the choice
and he would have been so lonely with all the celebrations going on
but no one to celebrate with...
Hopefully he will get to see his own kids soon.... 
Its a work in progress...



Wednesday, May 25, 2011

12WBT - Weigh InOne

Considering I started this on Monday!
There isnt much loss! I was actually secretly wishing for me!
But Ya get that hey!
So Im only down .2! 

It was raining this morning at 7am when i get up to walk...
And poor Stu spent the night in the fetal position on the lounge due to Kidney Stones
All I heard all night was his moaning in agony!
So there wasn't much sleep in our house last night!

But after getting my jobs done this morning
and my deliveres
the rain stopped and i headed upto Porky around lunch time!

I multi tasked and got all my phone calls done while i was at it!
Until the steps started and then i had to hang up!!!

By the way, I counted them today!
In the .8km section there are 205 steps to the top!!!
No wonder my legs are so sore!!!
Varying heights but 205 none the less!

Here is me at the top today!


Here is a 180 photo over the other side of Porky
This looks out over onto farm land!
There are lots of white dots out there at the moment with Cotton Harvest!


You can kinda see them right at the back there...


Also updates on Matt


We took Mat to the rehabilitation doctor in Tamworth yesterday
They did have him assessed in John Hunter as not being a candidate for Rehab
but the Doctor here wanted to make sure we have looked at all the options.
But after reading all his notes and lengthy discussions with Us and Matt,
he thought that he wasn't suitable.
There is no chance of him walking again
or living independently at all!
He agreed that our discussions on placement in a High Care Facility that has funding for Young People is our best option for him
Thank goodness there is a place that is close, and we will be 
placing him there when all the paperwork is done!
He will have small improvements over the years, but it looks like this is it for him!
Very sad!
The guy that did it will only get a maximum 10 year sentence (But the detective said he wont get that long)
and his victim gets the rest of him life in a Nursing Home!
It doesn't seam fare does it!
Matthew wont be able to give evidence at the trial, therefore they aren't interested in his recal of the events.
So the judge or jury wont ever lay eyes on the victim or what he has now become because of this act of violence! its not at all fair!!


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